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The first step

I saw this message online. I think it sums up where I am at.


Sometimes it's hard to sell / giveaway / recycle items we don't really need anymore.

Psychologically we often like things just because they're ours. If they were someone else's we wouldn't want them, but their ours so we hold on tight.

I recently gave away a bunch of books to a charity booksale. I had once enjoyed the books, but these days they'd become clutter and I get more joy from knowing someone else will enjoy them.

As a side bonus, next time we move (which may be part of living the life we want) it'll be much easier without all the extra stuff we don't need.

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