Why not work even longer?

My wife and I currently work about 3 days per week. Even just typing that feels like a rebellious act in a society that herds us towards five days a week of work.

My wife was recently doing one of those "graduate outcomes" surveys that the university arranges.

It asked how much she works. When the answer was less than 5 days, it asked if she was looking for more work. She said no and was asked to choose one of the following reasons.

They thought up 10 options and not one was even close to "this is how much I want to work".

Each option was just a variation of 'There's no work for me' or 'I have no time'.

It's as if they couldn't even imagine a person who doesn't long to hand over even more of their life to work.

I reckon that surveys like this, and about a hundred other things, herd/lure/peer-pressure us into working 5 days per week even though there's no real reason to.

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